Questions & Answers

How do I participate in a Creative Crossings program? How To Book tells you exactly what to do to bring a Creative Crossings program to your community and also provides a list of current offerings and dates.

What does a typical program look like? Click on A Sample Day to learn about the basic activities and structure of the My Mother and Me! program. However, each workshop is custom-designed to meet the needs and time frame of a specific group.

Who facilitates the Creative Crossings program?
Peggy Rubens, School Counselor and the founder of Creative Crossings, facilitates and organizes all programs. Click on About Us to find out more.

Is this counseling or a therapy program? Creative Crossings programs are a fun and unique way to explore the mother/daughter relationship, but we do not enter into a therapeutic relationship. We can, however, offer you resources if you would like to explore counseling options.

Will my relationship with my daughter be judged or analyzed? At Creative Crossings, we aim to create an atmosphere that is supportive, caring, and non-judgmental. We honor and learn from all the relationships and share successful strategies.

My daughter and I have a great relationship. Why should we go? Creative Crossings is a simple and fun way to honor and celebrate your relationship. Often, schedules are so busy that there is little time to acknowledge the great bond that you have and to really play together. Many mothers enjoy seeing their daughter take on a leadership role, and our ‘wish circle” can be very emotional and powerful. Put simply, Creative Crossings is a fun way to spend an afternoon!

I am excited about this program, but my daughter isn’t interested. This is a tough one. Many girls are not interested in coming, but end up having a wonderful time. In fact, it is often the girls who are most resistant to the event that have the most profound experience. Keep this in mind when you tell them about it and maybe offer then a special incentive to get them invested. Also, encourage them to invite other friends and their mothers—a true buy-in for girls this age. I am happy to offer a personal invitation to your daughters and explain the program to them.

What should I wear? We will be gluing, cutting and playing, so wear clothing that allows you to move freely.

How can we stay involved? Creative Crossings will be sending out newsletters to let you know of interesting opportunities for girls and mothers/mentors. Please tell us of your interests and needs, so that we can develop future workshops and programs that are helpful for you and your daughter.

What is Experiential Education? Experiential Education is comprised of three important components: Experience, reflection, and application. A mother/daughter pair or the group as a whole engages in an activity that involves communication and working together to accomplish a task. This leads naturally to mother/daughter pairs reflecting on the beauty of their relationship, the quality of time spent together, their communication system, and a variety of other relationship components. During the workshop, the mother/daughter pair discusses how they can bring what they learned back to the home environment.

Experiential education means learning by doing! We spend a little time talking, but the main focus is on experiencing the relationship.

How can I help bring this work to other girls and moms? You can help make Creative Crossings available to moms and daughters of all economic levels by supporting the Eppard Vision non-profit (www.eppardvision.org) with a tax-deductible donation. The Eppard Vision is a 501 ( c ) (3 ) non-profit educational corporation operated out of Bellingham, Washington that exists to:

• Create healthy communities and relationships
• Empower people to reach their potential
• Enhance understanding and foster appreciation for diversity
• Promote social responsibility
• Help people develop effective communication skills
• Reduce violence
• Increase awareness of other cultures

Please make checks out to the Eppard Vision and indicate that the money is in support of Creative Crossings.

Eppard Vision
P.O. Box 5914
Bellingham, WA 98225

 

info@creative-crossings.com